blender

- who said that the person who speak to you without anger is kind to you? she/he might actually dislike you but still can control that feeling.
- who said that the person who keep in talking bad about her/his friend like you better than that friend? May be she/he just complaining but still prefer that friend than you.
- who said that the person who say 'yes' for your opinion is really agree with that opinion? may be she/he is just pretending agree.
- who said that the person who always ask for your help need you? may be she/he is just using you during the hard moment. But when it is an enjoy moment she/he leave you behind.


Nice fellow will say only good things about her/his fellow. If it is not a good thing, talking bad things is just in purpose to figure out the way to improve his/her fellow, not to blame him/her. If your fellow is just pretending in front of you and still talk about your badness at your back means that fellow is not in to you. DON'T TRUST THIS FELLOW. 

there are so many difference people. but you will know better about people who really love you; a best friend. A best friend is not just the closest friend but more than that. when people talk bad things about you, she/ he protect you, not joining the talks. or unless, she/he just keep in silence..and that's fine. sometimes, if you did this to your friend but she/he didn't do the same, it hurts a lot and burn the trust.