Friday 11 March 2011

Mean Girl 2

Last night I watched a movie entitled Mean Girl 2. It is a very good story. The main point is friendship. Friendship can be built anywhere and any time. Normally two persons can be a close friend when they are sharing the same thing. Example, the moment together like eating together, playing a sport together, and much more. A best friend can be seen when we really need someone to talk to. I am talking about close friend / best friend.

In friendship, apology and forgiveness are needed. People are surrounded by hormone that lead to anger sometimes and hurting our friends is a normal situation. That is why we need to apologize. When a best friend apologize, keep your ego away and forgive him/her.When you are engaged with someone, you will want him/her not to ignore you. It seems so demanding but that is the reality. When a friend start ignoring you, it is a sign that she/he doesn't need you any more. It is so sad. So, please don't ignore your best friend.

Friendship cannot be paid with money. Please don't be a friend for money. When a best friend ask to accompany you, do you want to be paid? It sounds not good. Remember, perhaps you also will ask him/her to help you. Do everything should be paid? Better you open a business for that, not a friendship.

When you have a close friend, there will be a feeling of being the priority among all the fellows. That's we called as belonging. People may say that "I am not belonged to anyone". That's true, but you still have to consider people beside you. If you keep on thinking that you are not belonged to anyone and you can do what ever you like, better don't get friend.

Furthermore, please don't be plastic to your friend. A best friend should be a protector, a person who protect you from any harm. When a group of fellows talk bad things about you, a best friend should protect you. If she/he join that conversation, that's mean she/he is a plastic friend.

Besides, don't keep an important news away from your best friend and tell others instead. That will be hurt. It shows that you are not trusting him/her and don't need her/him.

The last thing, friendship needs a sense of touch. I mean with the same gender of course. Show that you love your friend with a hug. Don't hesitate to give a hug. Overall, if you think that your best friend is important for you, you will be important for him/her.

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